"You are not your thoughts" - Amber Rae

Interestingly, when I saw this sentence uttered by this beautiful lady Amber Rae in her post You are not your thoughts, my first reaction was "what the..?", that sounds so split-personality..

I then paused for a moment, & read through her post once again.  I could feel something resonating inside me when I recall those words "You are not your thoughts".  I think I understood the message.  It's not really to deny our own thoughts & treating it as someone else.  It's about not to be chained down by our inner voice or any limiting beliefs about what we are capable of or how we should only do certain things that make us look like "ourselves" even though we may feel unhappy or "wrong" in our usual everyday life.  Of course that doesn't mean we have to start doing wacky, crazy things, or anything terrible.  It simply meant that we are actually not limited to what we "believe" we are (those little voices inside our head when we self talk..), how our lives should be & give up exploring further to pursue the life we truly wanted deep inside.

Personally, this mindset helped to relieve some stress from the idea of failing in my business & having to start all over again in the 9-7 way, but no more being young, updated & competitive in a few more years.  After all, those were just my perception of how things may turn out should my plan turn sour, which is of course not definite & certainly not the only path I can take IF that day really comes.  I guess the main limitations then will be my resolve & my imagination about what else can be done.


Thanks Amber Rae for your beautiful wisdom.

岁月

今晚，大伯做寿，只请了些近亲在自家吃。同时也遇到了许久不见的堂姐们--原来大家都比我想像中的 ，老了许多。。不经不觉又提醒了自己的年纪和时光的流失。

眼看多数同辈亲戚们都成了家，也有了自己的孩子。让我感叹眼前的自己依然在为不上不下的事业拼搏求存，更别说什么找个伴交往、成家的。


岁月匆匆催人老，蓦然回首已尽头。

Worry Not

If it's something that you can solve by taking the right actions, then there's no need to worry.

And if it's something that you cannot solve no matter what was done, then worrying won't help.

Perhaps, the only valid brief moment to worry was when you know something can be done to solve the problem, but you have no idea on how to do it yet.  Then you should focus on finding out what to do & how to do it instead of worrying for more than a minute.

天下无敌

在这艰难的创业时期，当工作面对无数次挫败与不安、家中发生的不如意与失望、和自我要求未能达成与种种种种不顺心下，我庆幸自己学会了为当下意志消沉的自己打气。

（再再再再再......）加油油油~！！！

2015 新年前夕

在佳节的热闹氛围下，寂寞的人更寂寞。

Getting back up again

Success is falling 999 times, getting back up a 1000 times, and learning how to better balance myself for another attempt.

~ Inspired by Jon Bon Jovi's quote

出生纪念日

生日—— 应该是感谢，当年忍痛的母亲诞下自己的一刻。

现在，我能做的就是好好活下去。尽一切努力做好我该做、也能让母亲感到骄傲的事。

一百万个可能

第一次听就觉得挺特别的歌。后来惊觉是位外国歌手 Christine Welch 所唱。舒服、平静。

希望新的一年里一切会更好。

出路

当用尽方法却还只尝到挫败时，坚持就成了最后一道防线。
勇敢走下去就一定会有出路；只要方向正确。