足迹: June 2008

Sunday, June 22, 2008

True Love?

Humans aren't created to love just one forever by nature... Those who do faithfully love just one in their lifetime are errors & flaws of the nature.

Out of a thousand couples, how many dares truthfully say they have only one other person in their heart. If given the freedom to have more than one, will they still choose to be with only one life partner? I doubt so.. at least for the majority; be it a male or female. After all, humans are also animals similar in some ways to those living in the wild. Bear in mind our very 1st ancestor could be living on treetops; http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human

That's why law comes in to intervene with marriages (before any couples are announced LAWFUL husband & wife) as a form of "contract"... To MAKE SURE marriage aren't taken lightly. Once you do break that, you'll have to pay for it.. BY LAW... If humans do love only one life partner by nature, will there still be a need for law to "bond" couples together? Just to prevent one another from committing "adultery"; so called by law..

There's nothing wrong with having more than one in your heart, I never say it was. But you just have to let go of the "rest" from your life & stay with only one, until the day you break the "contract" again to be lawfully single once more.

Nothing has value to you until you give meaning to it. That applies to relationship as well...

P.S.: I prefer those flawed in this manner...

Thursday, June 19, 2008

《驿》

一首触动人心的歌。。。真的有那么痴情的女子吗。。。？
不管事实如何，这故事是凄美的。。。

唱：林慧萍（口白：黄舒俊)

火车站的候车室　时常坐着一位打扮整齐的中年妇人
手里抱着一个老式皮箱　游目张望　似乎在期待什么
第一次见到妇人是他高中的时候　每天夜里从桃园通车到台北补习
深夜十一点回到桃园　妇人总是准时地坐在候车室的木椅上
等待着的姿势　不安的眼神　端整的打扮　
好像在等待着某一位约好的人
起先他没有特别留意她　可是时间一久　尤其是没有旅客的时候
妇人就格外显的孤寂　
有一天他终于下定决心　在候车室等待那妇人离去
一直到深夜落音　一直到凌晨一点　妇人才站了起来
走到候车室的黑板前用粉笔写着
“水：等你没等到。　我先走了。　英　留”
那时他才知道　原来候车室长久以来的这则留言是出自那妇人
后来车站的老人告诉他　妇人已经在候车室坐了二十几年了
有人说她疯了　有人说曾看见她打开皮箱　箱里装的是少女时代的衣服
大部分的人都说　在二十几年前的一个夜晚　
英和她的水约好在车站碰面
要私奔到某一个不知名的地方　可是叫水的那个男人却缺席了
有一天他回家的时候　不再看到英的影子　
问了车站许多人都不知道为什么
这风雨无阻的妇人那一天没有来　第二天的清晨
英残缺的身体被发现在铁道上　皮箱滚到很远的地方
旅客留言板上有她的字迹　只改了几个字
“水：等你三十年　我先走了　英　留”

就这样　断了线　就真这样　不再相见
飞出了时间　飞出天边　飞到另外一个　没有我的天
经过许多年　所有的眷恋　飘浮在时空里　没有终点
人生是一张　泛黄的相片　而我站在车站静止的画面

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Skin-on car

Car of the future. Cool concept but dunno how practical it'll be.. a scratch & it could be torn apart. Anywayz, I like the idea.

Sunday, June 8, 2008

旧地重游

旧地重游。你会有些新的体会和感触。。

Inner World

~ Everyday is a new opportunity to do better

~ 命运是人与人之间的关系所串成的：龙狼传第２５卷

~ 吃得苦越多，你的视野会越宽，你人生的故事会很丰富

不要到了老的时候你是一个没有故事可以讲的人
:方文山

~ 你能够有机会遇到一个低潮的时候是很美满的其实

我怕很多人在遇到低潮的时候都不知道自己在一个低潮期

他认为自己运气不好而已

他没有什么需要改的

他没有什么需要反省的

撞墙不是罪过遇到低潮也不是你的错

能够给你这段时间去好好检查自己是很幸福的一段时间
:周华健

~ The deeper the darkness... the more dazzling the light shines ~ Boku no Hero Academia (Anime)

~ Obstacles were never meant to stop us, it is there to guide us; telling us what we need to do to get closer to our goal.

~ You have to risk failure to succeed. The important thing is not to make one single mistake that will jeopardize the future. ~ An Wang

~ "You are not your thoughts." ~ Amber Rae

~ In the face of trouble, you need to assess the situation and if something can be done, there's no need to worry. What you need to do is take action. And if there's nothing to be done, worrying won't help. ~ Dalai Lama

~ If you talk about it, it's a dream. If you envision it, it's possible. But if you schedule it, it's real. ~ Tony Robbins

~ I find hope in the darkest of days, and focus in the brightest. I do not judge the universe. ~ Dalai Lama

~ For me, "problems" were "opportunities". However, "having no idea" was the origin of "problems". Therefore, "having no idea" was the origin to "opportunities". ~ Tob-Ittipat Peeradechapan (Tao Kae Noi)

~ You can be discouraged by failure, or you can learn from it. So go ahead & make mistakes, make all you can. Because, remember that's where you'll find success, on the far side of failure. ~ Thomas J. Watson

~ 坚持 —— 就是坚持做下去自己觉得已经非常努力的事。

~ If you aren't getting the results that you want in life, then something must have been done wrong, no excuse!

~ Whenever something goes wrong in ur life or u find urself in an unhappy situation, make it a habit to ask urself, "Wat did I do to allow this to happen?" Make note of what u discover & brainstorm ways u can make changes that will bring more positive & desired results. ~ Stephenie Zamora

~ If your behaviour is consistently high standard, your particular quality may be integrity ~ Aristotle

~ After a while, people will know you by your habits & habitual behaviour. These habits can be qualities.

~ Give your goals substance, imbue them with a value that exceeds the monetary;give them a subtext that will provide them with a dimension that will benefit not only you but other people as well: Donald Trump

~ 只有真正的强者才能从容、自信的面对世界总种考验

~ People don't buy features, they buy benefits

~ Get out of your comfort zone, climb out to the edge: Donald Trump

~ Winners see problems as a great way to prove themselves~ Do something very different everyday

~ To succeed, schedule the time, squeeze the lower priority, low significance activities. Bring the future you want into view. Want to change for the better, change the way you live today

~ If a yawning gap separates how you live & how you'll like to live, thats because you fail to bring your future into the present. You spend too much time on small tasks & pleasures. You invest too litttle time mapping out on the road to your hopes

~ We live as creatures of habits, but we form habits through our prevalent & persistent attitudes & believes: Gary W. Eldred

~ those who live the most emotionally satisfying, properous, & financially independent lives are people who find ways to move forward rather then mire themselves in complain. They are the people who do what they plan & plan what they do. They see possibilities when others see obstacles. These skills begin with attitude: Gary W. Eldred

~ to achieve large goals, think big

~ some people succeed because they are destined to, but most people succeed because they are determined to!

~ when you turn something you often do into a habit, it became you; so start doing what you'll love to be!

~ 争一事不如争千秋，更何况你怎么知道，老天爷的布局不是要你扛起更大的责任呢？

~ 人的胸襟有多大，成就空间就有多大

~ The strongest force in the human personality is the need to remain consistent in how we define ourself - Tony Robbins

~ The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, I can change - Carls Rogers

~ If you don't make mistakes, you don't make anything

~ When the will seeks to do one thing, & imagination envisions the opposite, the imagination wins everytime - Ruth Barrons Roosevelt

~ Emotion is a response to a thought & it's contagious, so change your thought to evoke a different emotion & eventually life

~ I believe & I'll strive to be one

~ I forgive all my past mistakes & fully accept what I am today; I deserve to have all the goodness in the universe for my mind, heart & soul

~ look into the past as a mirror, foresee future like a dream come true & understand present is the only chance to ACT to create an impact for the future

~ face obstructions with an optimistic & positive can-solve attitude, set a deadline depending on your threshold

~ even justified anger clouds the mind & takes the attention from where it needs to be

~ focus on healthy self image, erase unhealthy & limiting self image (of what you think you are capable of doing), e.g. I can't sell, I have social phobia, I can't design, etc.

~ "I WONDER..." is a word that'll lead you to the wonders of the universe & eventually life, don't only hope

~ No dream is too big, and no goal is impossible to reach

~ 做好事有两条路，一种是没有人做，你去做好，就是专家；第二种是大家都在做，但你比别人认真，把它做到最好，你也就变成专家 - 吴旭初

~ 知道越多、懂得越少 - 许志圣博士

~ If you want to be interesting all you have to do is to BE INTERESTED, if you want to be respected all you have to do is to RESPECT, if you want to be loved all you have to do is LOVE - John Giagkiozis

~ Nothing has value to you until you give meaning to it

~ It is only what you believe that you produce; just look around at what you've got. If you desire a different future, you must now have different thoughts & beliefs - Raymond Aaron

~ Doin what you love is the cornerstone to having abundance in your life - Wayne Dyer

~ If none of the things you do support your desires in any direct way, then do not expect to get what you want in this lifetime..

~ If you won't allow yourself to dream it, I know you wun do it - Randy Pausch

~ Each mess is a lock on the gate that keeps abundance out; aka abundance is everywhere, but you lock it out with every mess in your life - Raymond Aaron

~ If you don't know where you are going, you'll end up somewhere else - Yogi Berra

~ Make it a habit to commit & complete whatever you are doing. A lack of total commitment played a big part in causing you to fall short of your goal & eventually life!

~ To be conscious that you are ignorant is a great step to knowledge - Benjamin Disreali

~ 成功是属于勇于改变的人

~ Everyone likes to be treated as an individual (for the very good reason that they are individuals!)

~ Don't limit your visions of yourself or your business - Jay Abraham

~ Whatever that you focus on EXPANDS. So start focusing on 'Solutions' rather than 'problems', & what you really wanted to achieve in life.

~ Your outer world is merely a reflection of your inner world. If you want to make a permanent change, stop focusing on the size of your problem & start focusing on the size of you!

~ We are what we think all day long... - Napoleon Hill

~ Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now. - Goethe

~ We each leave our mark on the world every moment of everyday through the choices we make & the actions we take.

~ Happiness. When you enjoy what you do & where you work, great things will happen - Zapppo's Tony Hsieh

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